Be Nice to Yourself
So I think I have come to a realization that I'm quite sure of.
Being self-concious or having low self-worth is the thing that most prevents us from loving others.
When people are able to appropriately love and see worth in themselves, those are the people who are able to reach out to others the most. Theirs are the relationships that are most fulfilling, honest, and unabashed. I think that every time I have lashed out at those around me has been because I'd been feeling badly about myself.
If we want to have a good relationship, first we have to be able to look at ourselves with love and respect, be kind to ourselves, take care of ourselves. Once we feel good about that, we can extend total, complete love to others.
Being self-concious or having low self-worth is the thing that most prevents us from loving others.
When people are able to appropriately love and see worth in themselves, those are the people who are able to reach out to others the most. Theirs are the relationships that are most fulfilling, honest, and unabashed. I think that every time I have lashed out at those around me has been because I'd been feeling badly about myself.
If we want to have a good relationship, first we have to be able to look at ourselves with love and respect, be kind to ourselves, take care of ourselves. Once we feel good about that, we can extend total, complete love to others.
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